Parenting can feel like a juggling act, with daily challenges ranging from toddler tantrums to teenage pushback. What if there were a proven, research-backed approach to parenting that could help you handle these situations calmly, build a stronger connection with your child, and empower them to become confident, responsible adults? Dr. Thomas Gordon’s Parent Effectiveness Training (P.E.T.) course offers exactly that: a transformative method for parenting that has helped countless families communicate, connect, and thrive.
What is Parent Effectiveness Training (P.E.T.)?
Created by psychologist and Nobel Peace Prize nominee Dr. Thomas Gordon in 1962, P.E.T. was one of the first parenting programs to emphasize mutual respect, empathy, and effective communication. Unlike more traditional authoritarian or permissive styles of parenting, P.E.T. focuses on developing a cooperative and supportive relationship between parents and children.
P.E.T. introduces parents to a structured set of skills, including active listening, conflict resolution, and “I-messages” – tools that enable parents to express themselves honestly without harming the parent-child bond. The program emphasizes respect for children’s autonomy, helping parents raise emotionally healthy, resilient, and independent individuals.
Why Choose P.E.T. Over Other Parenting Courses?
While many parenting courses focus on behaviour management or discipline, P.E.T. goes beyond the basics, providing parents with the skills to build authentic, respectful relationships with their children. Here’s what makes P.E.T. stand out:
- Focus on Long-Term Connection and Trust
P.E.T. teaches parents how to communicate in ways that encourage openness and trust. By understanding your child’s perspective and validating their feelings, you create a safe space where they feel valued and understood. This builds a foundation of trust that strengthens as they grow. - Effective Communication Skills for Every Situation
The P.E.T. method doesn’t offer one-size-fits-all solutions or quick fixes. Instead, it equips you with adaptable tools to handle different situations, from minor disagreements to serious conflicts. With active listening, “I-messages,” and no-lose conflict resolution strategies, you learn to communicate more effectively, even during difficult moments. - A No-Lose Conflict Resolution Model
Instead of power struggles that often lead to resentment, P.E.T. encourages finding solutions that work for both parents and children. The course’s no-lose method teaches parents how to approach conflicts collaboratively, teaching children invaluable skills for problem-solving, negotiation, and compromise. - Practical Tools Backed by Research
P.E.T. is not just theory; it’s a practical, research-supported framework used by parents around the world for over 50 years. Studies show that P.E.T. methods reduce family conflict, improve parent-child relationships, and foster children’s social-emotional development. - Supports a Wide Range of Ages and Stages
P.E.T. principles apply to all stages of parenting, from toddlers to teenagers and even young adults. No matter what age your child is, P.E.T. can help you build better communication skills and address challenges with empathy and clarity.
How Does Parent Effectiveness Training Work?
The P.E.T. course is typically offered as either 8-weekly sessions of 3 hours or 2 one day workshops, online in the convenience of your own home. Each session is focused on developing specific skills and tools. Participants have the opportunity to practice these skills in real-life scenarios and gain feedback from your experienced P.E.T. instructor Brian Allen who is a Certified Master Trainer in PET with decades of experience.
In the course, you’ll learn techniques such as:
- Active Listening: Learn how to truly listen to your child’s concerns and feelings, making them feel heard and understood.
- The “I-Message” Technique: Express your own needs and emotions clearly without making your child feel blamed or criticized.
- Conflict Resolution Skills: Discover how to handle conflicts without using power or punishment, fostering mutual respect and cooperative problem-solving.
The tools you’ll gain in P.E.T. can transform your family dynamics, giving you the skills to handle challenges calmly and build a lasting, positive relationship with your child.
Real-World Impact: Testimonials from Parents
Parents who’ve completed the P.E.T. course report feeling more confident, calm, and connected to their children. Many describe it as a “game-changer” that transformed their parenting approach for the better. Here are just a few examples:
- “P.E.T. taught me how to really listen to my kids. Now, when they’re upset, I know how to respond in a way that shows them I care. Our home has become a lot more peaceful.” – Samantha R.
- “I used to struggle with my teenager’s attitude, and every conversation turned into a battle. Thanks to P.E.T., I’ve learned how to communicate better, and he’s much more open with me. We’re finally on the same page.” – John L.
Why Wait? Start Your Journey with P.E.T. Today
Parent Effectiveness Training is more than just a course—it’s a new approach to parenting that can change your family’s future. By learning how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and build trust, you’ll create a healthier, happier family dynamic.
If you’re ready to take your parenting to the next level, consider enrolling in a P.E.T. course with Master Trainer Brian Allen today. With Dr. Thomas Gordon’s proven methods and the support of Brian, you can build a stronger, more connected family that thrives on mutual respect and understanding. Start today, and give your family the gift of lifelong skills that make parenting more joyful and rewarding.
Questions and expressions of interest to: brianallenassoc@yahoo.com.au or phone 0449 798 909